You’re in your early 20s, and u just like being around to only genuine people, doesn’t matter if it’s just one, u like peaceful evening watching sunset and coffee, you start not going to crowded places and staying in the bed feels like a privilege, appreciation and validation makes you happy, cooking your favourite soulfull food is your go to things , you love to cherish every little moment of your life, empathetic and meaningful conversation are what u look forward to, you start thinking about your future more often, and that’s how adulting should be cause u grew up …

One day you think : i want to die and then you think, deep inside your heart quietly : actually, actually I want to run a way to a place where no one knows me, to a place which is so underrated and filled with nature which give me peace, or may be I wanna a coffee. A book to escape reality. A nap. A soulful meal. And I want to die turns day by day into i wanna home made by me , i wanna start my coffee/bookstore/flower shop, i wanna take long walks, i wanna meet my friends, i wanna dance in rain, i wanna sit under sky gazing at stars, i wanna job I love , i want to cook my own meals in a clean kitchen, i want live somewhere else and it becomes i want to live …

Showing people you care or love them is becoming clichès but I think it’s important in love. I mean all kinds of love out there. It can be two friends reaching out for each other every here and there, or lover reminding you to do the your daily routine of water and food on time just because. It’s your father bringing you your favourite food just because he saw on his way and it’s in the way your mother still tells you to lock the door when ur home alone. There will never be enough stories about hugs and impromptu dates with the one u love. There is a smile on your face every time u see your favourite person in love. I believe where else the love reside if not in the ordinary things, where else is home if not in the moments that can be relieved all over again?

But that’s me .. Cause for me LOVE is like those small little things .. When my mom cooks my favourite food just because i had a tough day … When my best friend keeps sending reels as gesture to keep checking on me… When the moon and i have those heart to heart conversation.. When my brother stays out with me late at night so i can be safe and have fun at same time… When its a lazy morning and i just want is a home made coffee to make it perfect… When my father just come to me pat my head and hug me at regular intervals… When someone cares more than you about you eating on time and reaching safely… When it rains and I just want to lose myself in the sound, smell or every thing about it… When its the sky which makes those beautiful painting together with sun and clouds… When those two fictional character I watch or read about have a meet cute and just fall in love with each other But yaa that’s just My way of feeling that I am loved enough…

Here’s to all the girls who where told ’ you are hard to understand ’ , ’ you are not easy going ’, ’ you are confused and make me confused ’, ’ you are mess’ .. Which i know is not true but we don’t have that courage to speak up because somewhere inside they made us doubt, is it true??

Here’s to one who have it in them to stand up despite it all, and say love is never supposed to be easy, and it’s not about i am hard to understand it’s about if you really want to understand me or not because what we truly want is very simple not a mess.

We crave respect, to be heard, love and affection which is genuine and not just a formality that’s it …

You ever notice how hugs are like a universal remedy, yet we don’t toss them around casually with the people we care about? It’s strange, right?

There’s this awkward vibe around hugging.

I feel Hugs are like magic potions for the soul. When you wrap someone in your arms, it’s like sharing a cozy secret that whispers, “You’re not alone.”

They’re like daily reminders that in this big, busy world, we all crave a sprinkle of warmth and a dash of connection.

In life’s hustle, everyone needs a daily dose of warmth, yourself included. Hug your loved ones today; let the magic make the world cozier, one embrace at a time.

We talk a lot about how letting go is important but we never talk about the action that made you take that decision or the grief that comes with having to stand firm on that decision despite knowing that’s it’s not what you want but was necessary for your own we’ll being..

We all are stuck between ” I did everything I could to show them i love them” & ” I’m tried of fighting for someone who doesn’t put in the same efforts back”

And that’s when i realised why it’s equally important to put in efforts on yourself so you could also feel ” I did everything and i would love to fight but I love myself a lot more and i won’t compromise myself in this process”